1992 Hymer S700 I have no electronics that need monitoring so I have no discharge on the engine battery at all, this can and does stand for a few months without any charge, if the battery did go flat then there is a fault somewhere or the battery is u/s, if one did go u/s they are situated next to each other (in my case another engine battery I swap them over every year) there is a short jump lead to hand for use if one battery goes down when all electrics would run of the single good battery. I have 200w of solar panel which I find ample for all lighting which are leds, 12v tv, 12 volt laptop supply, water pump and cab radio. I think to use any appliance on 12v that has a large wattage requirement i.e. microwave, hairdryer etc is expecting too much, I have a under slung gas tank 60ltr, for cooking heating and fridge. I have a mains converter to 12v but undecided if to fit it.
This arrangement is fine for us but we do not wild camp in winter months we are usually on a site in Spain.